And I've come out the other side. Now I help men do the same.
I know what it's like to feel completely broken. To wake up every morning hating yourself. To feel like you're living someone else's life.
My father was an alcoholic who terrorized our home. I learned to walk on eggshells, never feeling safe in my own house. This shaped everything about how I saw myself and the world.
From 14 to 28, I used drugs to escape. Anything to numb the pain, to not feel the brokenness inside. I was running from myself, but I couldn't outrun the truth.
Life forced me to face reality. Twice. Each diagnosis was a wake-up call that I couldn't keep destroying myself. I had to choose: die or change.
Now I'm confident, in peace, and aiming to be a better person every day. I'm not afraid to be egotistic in order to keep my peace. I've earned this confidence through my journey.
That constant voice telling you you're not enough, that you're faking it, that everyone will find out you're a fraud.
Surrounded by people but feeling completely alone. Like you're watching life happen through a window, never really part of it.
Using anything to escape - drugs, alcohol, work, porn, food, gaming. Anything to not feel the pain inside.
That deep sense that there's something wrong with you at your core. That you don't belong anywhere, that you're defective.
Feeling angry all the time, but not knowing why. Lashing out at people you love, then hating yourself for it.
Your mind never stops racing. You're exhausted but can't sleep. Always on edge, always waiting for the next thing to go wrong.
I don't give you answers. I ask the questions that help you find your own truth. Because real transformation only happens when you discover it yourself.
We start with brutal honesty about where you actually are. No sugar-coating, no pretending. Real growth only happens from truth.
It's not weak to admit you're struggling. It's not weak to ask for help. Real men are honest about their pain.
I've been where you are. I've done the things you're ashamed of. You can tell me anything without fear of judgment.
We don't just talk about change. We make it happen. Every session ends with concrete steps you'll take before we meet again.
A judgment-free zone where you can be completely honest about your struggles, fears, and failures.
Specific, actionable steps to take between sessions. No vague advice - just clear direction on what to do next.
I'm not just your mentor during sessions. I'm here when you need me. Real support, not just scheduled meetings.
I will not watch you make destructive mistakes over and over again. I'll call you out when you're sabotaging yourself.
I will share my own experience with growing as a man. This isn't theory - it's real life experience from someone who's been there.
I will walk with you side by side as you transform. I'm invested in your success, not just a paid consultant.
If my story resonates with you, if you're tired of feeling broken and alone, let's talk. Real transformation is possible. I'm living proof.